Initially, I thought this blog would be something along the
lines of “I Wanna Be Hibernated” and I would talk about how lovely it would be to
wake up to four feet of snow and know that you are not going anywhere
today. I would go on about baking and
watching the kids play outside and the sense of comfort a warm house brings
when you are cold to the bone. I enjoyed
my role here of explaining lake effect snow to wide-eyed Southerners and know I
will be called in again in a few months to break down wind chill factor. However, as I watch all the news footage and
Facebook feeds about Buffalo this week all I can really think of is pride.
What? Pride and
Buffalo? Do those words go together? Remember all those Super Bowl losses in the
90’s you chime in? (Stow it Dallas) Is Buffalo even a part of New York? (That is what the people in NYC are asking). Buffalo?
Isn’t that where McKinley was shot?
(It was.) I say yes. I say you
can use pride and Buffalo in the same sentence and I will tell you why.
First, Buffalo is beautiful.
Yes, it has its parts of downtown that are falling down and derelict and
boarded up. Every big city has
that. Have you seen the architecture on
the buildings downtown? Gorgeous. Amazing.
Unexpected. Buffalo was the bomb back
when canals were a main source of moving things around. (Read Ken Follett’s Fall of Giants – a bit trite, I agree, but
Buffalo was a destination town for immigrants).
There was money here and they used it to build beautiful, ornate, stone
buildings throughout downtown. Go check
out the Historical Society and tell me you aren’t amazed with that building and
the thought and planning that went into that.
Buffalo has a riverfront that is improving each year. They have taken it from something no one
wanted to be next to into an area that people drive to on purpose- and pay for
parking. Yes, Buffalo is cold and snowy,
but that is only six months out of the year.
The other six is it green, lush and flowering or ablaze in autumnal
splendor.
Beauty aside, what really makes me proud of Buffalo is the
people. Yes, they are loud-mouthed, they
are opinionated, and they pronounce every “a” with a hard “a” sound whether
they need to or not. True, they can be
a little bitter, a little defeated, some may say pessimistic, but you know
what? They endure. You think this 7’ of snow is going to keep
them down? Nope. They are out there shoveling, snow blowing
and getting it done. There is no waiting
for the thaw. You have to dig out so you
can check on your neighbor. You have to
dig out so you can get to the one store that is open and bring back groceries
not just for your family, but the one beside you. This will not be the only snowfall the people
of Buffalo will see this year. They will
see many and they will do the same thing each time; they just won’t make the
national news each time. They will just
put their shoulder into it and endure.
You can do it!! |
I am reading all of these stories about how everyone is
helping out those who need help. The
people who can help are out there helping, in big and little ways, and the
people who need help are letting them. I
never worried about my car breaking down when I lived up there, and I drove a
piece of crap car that I put a quart of oil in every two days, because I knew
whoever was behind me would help push it to the side of the road and offer me a
ride home. People are pulling strangers
out of their stranded cars and taking them into their homes. People are checking on neighbors that they
hate 364 days a year because that is what you do. Emergency responders probably haven’t been
home in days and won’t think about going home until this passes. They are fueled on Tim Horton’s and knowing
what they are doing is needed. Sure,
they miss their families but they know their neighbors are looking out for them
until they get home. Nice that the
National Guard has been called in, but they will need to show them how it gets
done.
That is what I am proud of. I am proud of that endurance,
that let’s get it done, and the fact that they do the right thing without
anyone telling them to do it. They might
complain about it later, but they do it.
They make lemonade out of lemons and make do and do without and think that
is how everyone does it. They love their
sports teams and their hometown heroes and they love them unconditionally. There is a call out for people to come and
shovel out the Bills’ stadium so they can play on Sunday. They are offering $10/hour to come and
shovel, but I know that the people who show up would do it for free. The Bills need their help, they will be
there. Their neighbor needs their help,
they will be there. That is how it
works.
Carry on Buffalo, you can do it. You can ride this wave of snow and the flood
that will come when it all melts. We are
watching, we are cheering you on and we are so proud to call you home. Haters can slam the Bills and Buffalo all
they want, but here’s the truth: the people of Buffalo don’t need rings or
trophies or announcements that they are winners – their endurance says it all.